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The most important part of manifesting is coming up with and knowing the answer to this question: “What do I want?” If you’re like I was, I’m sure you can come up with a litany of “here’s what I DON’T want…” That’s not the question. What DO you want? Focus on the positive! What you focus on expands. When you focus on what you don’t want, you get more of what you don’t want. Think, rather, about what you do want. Delineate what you want, inside and out, and make sure it’s realistic, makes sense and fits your life. Here’s how to create a well-formed goal or outcome in your mind, or on paper.
So, you’re thinking about what you want: state it in the positive. The next step is to set the context. Be very specific! Where do you want this goal, when and with whom? Think about these things as well: Is it realistic? Is it attainable? “I want to lose 40 pounds by next Saturday.” Not realistic! It reminds me of the magic 8 ball message: “wish for something possible.” It has to be physically possible. Perhaps change it to 40 pounds within the next 8 months; that’s doable.
Ask yourself: Is this something I can do by myself, start by myself? We only control ourselves, our behavior, our feelings, we can’t control others. “I want Mary Jane to fall in love with me.” That’s not a well-formed goal. What you can wish for, instead, is that you yourself develop and enhance your own positive attributes that would attract someone like Mary Jane.
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