Overcome Social Anxiety By Understanding Man’s Craving For Blood & Honor
There’s several stages that we have to go through in order to overcome social anxiety, but before I explain further…
Those Spartan movies, war, secret assassins, samurai & ninja wars…admit it, they call to you.
There are less women out there who like these movies compared to men. Don’t you agree?
Why?
This is supposed to be a time of men liking what women like and women liking what men like.
Most women aren’t mesmerized by bad-guy-ass-kicking, bullets flying and choppers exploding.
If by chance you’re a female reading this and you LIKE all that, then DUDE you have to call me, I’ve searched for you my whole life.
The rest of you stay focused!
For a number of years I’ve studied psychology and I found something very interesting.
I realized men and women are differently wired. We’re different. From a larger perspective we men are drawn to different things.
When we watch action movies there’s something that stirs us up inside and we connect with it. Something very primal that we don’t experience often, or should I say in modern times that aspect of life is virtually erased. That primal mechanism holds the key to overcoming social anxiety.
Men in the ancient times recognized this innate part of us and developed it, embracing a part of us that in this day and age is suppressed. I think it’s a whole lot of BS when people say men become brutes when they cultivate that part that wants action and adventure.
When you can cultivate that innate natural part of you it gives you PERSONALITY. See it as the foundation from which character is built. It’s one of the things giving you substance.
Shyness, social anxiety and social awkwardness is the result of that “foundation” not being nurtured.
THAT’S one big reason of shyness because your personality doesn’t have a strong foundation to support on. An example would be you walking up to people to talk and not feeling comfortable with yourself.
Kind of deep isn’t it?
Breathe deep. You can actually eliminate that problem.
There is a way to build a strong, powerful personality, overcome social anxiety and be able to command respect. Not only that but you can attract the types of people you want around you and have the kind of social life style you’ve always wanted just by changing a few things about you.
This is how you do it…you know the guys who are fluid and natural with conversations and in the social environment?
Make friends with those guys and HANG-OUT with them.
The fortunate thing about us is we pick up and LEARN from the examples of others. You know “monkey see-monkey do?” right, if you can be around a few guys who are exceptional in the social dynamic area you’ll begin to get it.
Do it now!
If getting into their “inner circle” is something you have trouble with. Then you have to figure out what attracts people, conversation is one of them; if you can learn conversation skills it can easily help you overcome social anxiety. If you want to learn how to get invited to cool social gatherings, learn how to have conversation that’s not only interesting but also clues people to you, have an edge in virtually any social interaction…a shortcut, then you need to download my ebook.
Go to surfsocialwaves.com/ebook
Hope this help!
Your friend,
Chris C.
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